Original Sin

Funny how Original Sin, a dismal doctrine that suddenly appeared from the quill of Augustine in the fourth century as he tried to explain away his own compulsive sexual behavior, really is a lot more about original blame. Even today, humans seem obsessed with guilt and blame. From mass shootings to weather events to viruses,…

When THAT Guy Shows Up

I suspect we all have had that friend - a good guy at heart but completely lacking in social graces. If you invite him over, the odds are that something will be spilled and something else broken before he leaves. He tends to speak just a little too loudly, act just a bit too impulsively,…

Who Are We to Be?

I confess that, watching the political discourse over the last few years I have become increasingly discouraged. I have watched American politics, not as an obsession but as a citizen interested in public discourse, since the late Johnson administration. To my more smart assed younger friends, I should specify that I mean the Lyndon, and…

Separating Person and Behavior

Many of us have a problem - maybe even most of us have this problem. We confuse the value of a person with their behavior. For example, we know that someone plays for the Chicago Bears football team, and we cannot even begin to understand the abysmally bad judgment that would lead anyone to consider,…

Behavior Police

If you are one of those people who patrol the Internet looking for things you don't agree with in the Hope's of finding someone doing something you don't agree with so you can "correct" them, I have a suggestion. Just stop. Find a hobby, grab a good book, learn to knit, or buy some rechargeable…

Why are my religious friends jerks?

It's a question I hear quite often. People will tell me that they like their "everyday" friends more than their spiritual or religious friends. They can easily relate to the former, but the latter - even for people with advanced formation in things spiritual - are hard to be around. They say or do things…