Spiritual teachers, no matter the tradition, should never be sexually involved with their students. Period.
Spiritual teachers who are sexually involved with their students are not, in fact, qualified to be spiritual teachers.
The notion that one can be partially enlightened but somehow not have that awakening reach their genitals and attitudes toward women is nothing other than absurd apologetics for rapists and an ill disguised attempt to help them avoid responsibility for their actions.
You cannot be awakened and a perpetrator of violence at the same time. You cannot be awakened and commit crimes against at risk populations at the same time. You cannot be awakened while at the same time making excuses for your bad behavior.
Is it clear yet?